Things Fall Apart? Are you confused, tired and you don’t know what to do? Read this post to learn how to overcome times when Things Fall Apart.
Everybody had some bad days where nothing worked. Sometimes the major breakdown can last for weeks or months. Buf if you just had your major breakdown and if you are confused and you don’t know what to do, you are in the right place.
It really doesn’t matter if it’s about your business or personal life but I believe there is 1 thing that creates breakdowns in your life. I believe that some major breakdowns are created by the universe to test you. We all are the part of the universe and I think the universe is on our side, but it tests us if you are ready to succeed. I know many successful people who had their major breakdowns before they had their major breakthroughs. Which kinda proves The Universe Testing belive.
They key of this is that the universe wants to check if you give up. If you decide to give up the success will go to someone else. Times, when things fall apart, are very important because you can prove to the universe that you want to succeed no matter what. Any disease, divorce, foreclosure can’t stop you. You set yourself for success and you are willing to do and overcome anything that it’s on your way to achieving your goal.
This is what the universe want to see. If you can show it then you will achieve your goals.
People who never achieved success usually get depressed, tired and they are willing to quit when the major breakdown comes. Usually, if they still have a bit of desire to success they would find another business opportunity. The things are that if you quit once, probably soon or later you will quit again if some breakdown happens. You might say “but this doesn’t work” so my suggestion will be to create a better strategy. Quitting won’t bring you anything than just a disappointment. Instead of saying “why this always have to happen to me” ask yourself how can you fix it or do it better.
Successful people’s technique to overcome a breakdown.
Vision, Learning, and Positive Solution are the keys to overcoming times when things fall apart. This is how successful people overcome the breakdown. Trust me, rich and successful people have breakdowns.
First of all no matter what they are focused on their vision. Successful people wake up and they step into their vision. When they are eating breakfast they already have a plan and they know what they are going to do next. Some unexpected situations might happen and it might slow the success creation process down, but even that successful people never let their vision go because of some temporary event.
When successful people have a breakdown, they learn from it. In fact, successful people have their ears and eyes opened all the time. It’s not only about the breakdown but about all the situations and circumstances that are happening around them. Successful people don’t play the Victim Role, they don’t say things like “why this is happening to me”. Instead, of saying that, usually they would say “ok this happened. What can I learn from it?” They deeply understand that any stage of their entrepreneurial journey brings them closer to the goal.
Positive solution. I wrote the word the word “positive” because it’s very important to create a good solution. Let’s be clear here. Not successful people are able to create a solution as well. Not successful people’s solution can be described in 2 words: “Run & Quit“. But this doesn’t help at all, it just damages people’s mindset.
Successful people try to create a solution based on the things that are happening. If they lost all their money, they will try to find a solution to get it back. If they get a disease, they would know that they have to take care of their health first, because without the health they won’t be able to achieve what they want to. And as I mentioned before, they are not willing to give up their vision, so they will do what’s necessary to achieve their goals.
When you have a major breakdown, you have only 2 choices: “Give Up” or “Fight Through“.
Each of these choices can take you somewhere. The first one will not bring you anything than disappointment and it will damage your self-esteem. The second choice might not be easy, but the result will blow your mind when you overcome it. You might be in a difficult situation for a day, or a week, or 4 months or 5 years, but as long as you are willing to fight you have the opportunity to overcome the bad days.
Remember that a time where things fall apart is temporary. If you quit the misery will stay with you for a long time, but if you fight through your life will never be the same again.
Be Great! Be Unstoppable!