Do Not Say It! Are you struggling? Going through a tough time? Don’t you have the life you want? Did you know that you create most of the bad things in your life? In this blog post, I will show you 5 things you CAN’T SAY if you want to create strong Vision and change your life.
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There is 5 very important
statements that totally destroys your life and business. In order to change your life and business, first of all, you HAVE TO change your vocabulary.
So what are this 5 statements and how they work? I’ll show you how it works and why you can’t use them.
1. You don’t understand:
“This is so awesome, I would earn that BMW too but man, you just don’t understand”
Stop saying that. This is typical excuse of why you can’t create success or better situation in your life. You need to understand that so many people had worse situation than you and they could create success. My friend was about 1 million dollars in debt, his house was on foreclosure, he was hiding from bailiff, was after divorce and alone he was raising 2 sons. Even his circumstances at that time he could create massive success. It took him about 2 years but from 1 million dollars in debt and personal foreclosure he became a person who earns way more than 1 million a year.
So please for your own good, stop saying “I could…. But you don’t understand”.
2. Easy for him / her to say:
“Yeah of course it’s easy for him so sell more products, he already have money to invest in advertising”
Really? Do you really think like that? You see people as they are right now. You don’t know what kind of struggle they have been through till now. Again I will mention my friend, seeing him having great house and car may make you thing “of yeah, it’s easy for him because….”. You already forgot that he was broke and didn’t even have enough money to fit his sons?
See people view people as they are not how they become who they are. Everybody has struggles in their life, I do, you do and I am sure your friend has it too. By saying “it’s easy for him/her…” you actually say that “no matter what I am not able to do this”. You know what? Whatever you say you will get!
3. If I / If only / when:
“If I just had more money”, “If I lived in Brazil things were much easier”, “If only this was much cheaper I would do it”, “When I will be skinnier I will be able to get a girlfriend/boyfriend”.
All those statements means “I currently can’t do it”. “If I just had more money” – what is that? Are you complaining? Go to T. Harv Eker and learn about complaining. You can do amazing things even you don’t have money right now or if you need money right now for something very important you can go make some money! (how? How do I make more money? L ) – next blog post will be about it J. “When I will be skinnier I will be able to get a girlfriend/boyfriend”. Being skinnier may help you with attracting nice person to you, but it doesn’t mean you can’t find your soul mate only because you are chubby. There are so many people that care about your personality more than your look, Hey there are so many people that LOVE chubby people! Stop saying that and go have Fun! You never know who you are going to meet.
4. It isn’t working:
“I tried blog but it isn’t working”, “I tried to prospect but it isn’t working”, “I tried to run at morning time to lose weight but it isn’t working”.
Most of things you say that It isn’t working are thing that work if you keep doing it for some period of time. No one loses weigh after going to gym only for 2 days. You won’t attract right people by your blog if you post 1 time a week and you gave up after 3rd post. If you say that It isn’t working guess what, IT WONT WORK! Stop saying that and keep on going. Success and health does not happen overnight. You need to be continuously and do it UNTILL. I will write blog UNTILL I help 10.000 of people to earn residual income. I will keep walking every morning UNTILL I lose 20 kg. Don’t give up so soon, what I Steve Jobs gave up when people told him “No”? There won’t be such as company like APPLE. Really think about it J
5.I don’t have the money:
“I want to join this Biz but I don’t have the money”, “I want to go to nice dinner with you but I don’t have the money”. I want to tell you one very important thing “When you say how it is KEEPS it as it is!” You may say “But I really don’t have the money” Go create some! Sell something, get some part job, borrow from somebody, whatever! Just stop saying that you don’t have the money. Sometimes its much easier to say that you don’t have the money because it gets you out of some situations like going to eat dinner with uncle you don’t like. Do get out of some situations you can you many things for example: “I am very busy right now, sorry I can’t”, “tomorrow is very important day so I have sleep earlier”. Whatever “Excuse” you use it’s fine but stop saying that you don’t have the money because it keeps you in the place where you really don’t have any money.
I just want you to understand. Whatever non serving statement you say you only damage your life and business. Change your vocabulary and miracles will happen to you.
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