Did you know that you are going to have a hater and dream stealer? Some haters will be your family members, your friends or even strangers. If you think everybody is going to be nice and you will get the massive support you are wrong.
It’s not only about our industry, everybody who is going after success will have haters. This blog post explains why you are going to have haters and how to deal with them.
So why do you get haters?
When you get involved with network marketing company you are able to see possibilities. You are entering the new world totally different from the world you used to live. An average person wishes for about $40.000 – $50.000 annual income, a little bit more days off for taking the vacation and to save a little bit for the retirement. Because you joined network marketing company now you can see much bigger goals, $10.000 monthly income is not even super big for network marketers, we leverage tools and people that’s why we can have more free time and bigger income. Network marketers learn things that average person will never learn.
You see, you can have haters in your family members, friends, and strangers. When you are in the same room with your family members they may see you caught in the small box, you are in the different world than them. The truth is that they are kept in the box and you just got out of it.
“ok, ok. But why do they hate?”. Well, there is few reasons, one of the biggest is that some of the people who you know they HAD their goals but they couldn’t ever achieve them. Now some people will get jealous because you are doing your best to achieve your dreams. It makes them feel sad and bad, some of those people will even prevent you so hard to stop you from becoming a successful person.
“you are not going to make it”, “stop wasting your time”, “this company doesn’t work”, “you embarrass us and yourself!”. Haters and dream stealers often use these lines to prevent you from reaching your goals.
“What about friends from another Network Marketing company? Would they hate me too?”
it depends on than, what kind of friends you have. You see some network marketers think that if you are not in their that you are not their friends. As Ray said they treat their network marketing business like a religion. If you are not it than don’t talk to me, don’t be near me.
It’s sad but you are going to meet all kind off people who will try to prevent you, who will not support you and may hate you because their jealousy wins over the friendship.
So, how to deal with haters and dream stealers?
The answer is SUCCEED! That’s all you can do about it. When you are growing and going after your goals you don’t try to convince your haters, you don’t try to make them to understand because they won’t understand.
Focus on you and your team. Focus on your vision, on what your team wants to achieve. You see when you really focus on success of you and your team you don’t have time to even hear what haters says. Focus on people who like you no matter what, on people that you want to be around. This will bring more positive energy and will make you more excited.
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