So many people think that lack of skills or money is the major problem. The reason why you can’t take your business to the next level and you can’t change your circumstances is much bigger than your lack of skills, money, connections etc. This post might hurt many of people and I may lose some followers but if we want to grow we should find the obstacles and get rid of them, right?
Have you ever had a situation where you were
in a group of people and you felt like they are more professional than you, they have the strength and they seems like they are going to reach their goals no matter what? I am pretty sure you had this kind of moments in your life.
I realized something actually couple days ago. People do not get what they want because they are too weak! I admit I was still a weak person till now and I am pretty sure you are weak too at least at some points. I mean I’m not talking about being weak at math or prospecting.
I mean Weak as you, inside you there is a Ninja or Samurai but its not awake. You SAY things like “I’m fired up!”, “Let’s do this!”, “man I am going BIG!” , “NO one can stop me!” etc. you get the point.
You SAY all those things but actually it’s only words or you feel like that only for few minutes hours until something distract you or someone says something bad about you.
Maybe you can stand up and say to somebody “Shut the F*** up!” but so many people can’t do it.
They are so afraid of “what people will say” that they prefer to stay in the corner and be quiet.
Now be honest with yourself, I can’t see you no one can. How do you feel when you talk about your dream and your best friend or family member laughs at you? Are you sad, angry, disappointed, you think that they are right and you can’t do it? How do you feel?
You see most of people will get sad or even depressed. What they dreamed about was simply destroyed by somebody who they trusted and loved. I bet you are not able to say “Who the hell are you to question my dream!” to your best friend or even mother. Some people are not even able to say it to strangers. If you are a person that is not able to say something strong to another person it means you are weak and your business won’t grow if you don’t change it. If you are weak person you will feel bad for “pushing” your prospects, you will feel sad when somebody tells you NO!, you will feel that you didn’t deserve success in any shape or form.
Come on guys, Man Up! It’s your business, it’s your dream, it’s your life, no one can judge you, no one can say you are an idiot, you can’t make it. If someone says something bad about you or your goals, dreams than show them that they are wrong.
“Even you take everything from me, you won’t be able to stop me! My Vision is stronger than your negativity!” – Kamil Migas
“Who the hell are you to question my beliefs” – Unknown
Keep this attitude. You are an amazing person, there is thousands of things to like you for, you have an amazing business, family and friends. No one have rights to judge you and laugh at you. If someone does, don’t care or prove them wrong.
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