Pretty Please Like Me! This blog post is about you, your behavior and people around you.
Are you a person who cares about people’s opinion? Do you have somebody who hates you or is trying to make you look bad in front of other people?
First of all, do you know who you are? What you want and where you are going?
This is very important to know if you want to let “Being a People Pleaser” go.
For many years I tried to fit into some group of people. Whenever I was meeting them I started to act and talk like them.
I was trying hard to be just like them because I wanted to feel this acceptance from
other people. If somebody was angry with me or didn’t like me it hurt so bad, this feeling was stacked in my head and I couldn’t focus on anything else. But I realized that trying to fit to the group by being like them is just stupid. It wasn’t making me happy; I couldn’t be who I am. Caring about somebody’s opinion was making me tired and stressed.
One more thing that is very important in life and our profession. Remember this! When you are not who you really are for getting POSITIVE feedback from others You actually attract WRONG people! Don’t do it! Don’t care if someone don’t like you, you can think a little bit about the reason why that person does not like you. But just let it go. It’s impossible every person on earth to like you. There are millions of people out there and each one have different opinion, so stop faking yourself, be who you really are and then you will attract people who will bring you more happiness, support and real friendship.
Who do you want to work with? With who you want to build relationship?
You want to be fake, full of worries and be tired of acting in front of people?
Or you want to be free and attract people who are like you?
Wouldn’t be easier to work and take your business to the next level if you attract and work with people who have opinion, ideas and goals similar to yours? I bet you would like to work and be with people who makes you smile, help you and are with you because they like who you are.
Be yourself, because you unique. There is no same personal like you. Some people might look similar but inside they are totally different. When you will get rid of “Pretty please people Like me! “ feeling you will have less stress, you will have more happiness and you will attract people who will truly like you, people who will help you when you need help, people who will love to work with you and will follow you.
If somebody doesn’t like your blog, video, posts, personality or whatever it might be. Don’t care! Let it go! Focus on your goals, on who you are on people who are already attracted to you. When you will be able to do it you will reach another level of your life where you can be truly happy and successful.
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