Self-Confidence is very important to achieve anything. Self-Confidence comes from Self-Worth so you need to work on your self-esteem. Read this blog post to learn how you can build your self-confidence today.
In my opinion saying “I’m not confident to…” is just an excuse and a cover to hide that you are scared to do something. Of course, it’s not easy to say that you are scared so it’s much easier to say that you are not confident to do something.
Well, usually it comes from your childhood. The things you experienced with different people made you feel self-confident or not. Notice that we are all born confident and ready to rock the world, that’s why often babies and little kids do things that they think are cool and impressive which sometimes it’s just a normal thing but it doesn’t matter, for the kids the thing they did or learned is amazing and they feel confident about it.
Depends on your past your confidence could build up or you could lose your self-confidence after experiencing a lot of rejection and bad situations. So if you are wondering why you are not confident and why you are always scared to say your opinion or do some things then you should think about your past. Just to be sure, realizing why you are not confident won’t help you become super confident.
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You need to know your worth to become super confident, unfortunately, so many people feel worthless and it’s hard for them to feel worthy. I can’t tell you the exact thing that will make you be more confident because I don’t know you but no matter your circumstances and no matter where you came from I know you are worthy and I believe in you. I can say that because if you weren’t worthy you wouldn’t be here on this planet. So all the people are worthy and they are here for a reason.
I bet you heard this words so many times already… not very helpful isn’t it?
So let’s think about something else. I don’t know you and I don’t know you are running a business, you go to school or you are a stay home mom or dad but no matter what you do you impact other people and without you noticing it you change people’s lives. The relationships you build are very important, the words you say to other people are very important. Even if you think being kind and nice is a normal thing and you don’t see anything special about it a kid that has been bullied at school probably don’t think that being nice is a normal thing. So you just by being nice to that person you are giving a sparkle of hope to that person. This includes all the areas of life, school, work, business, family, friendship.
Maybe you’ve been rejected many times and not you don’t feel worthy and you don’t have the self-confidence but you should switch your way of thinking. You can feel worthy and confident because you’ve been through some tough time, you learned a lot the hard way and now you can share that experience with others.
You are worthy and I believe in you, no matter what you are attempting to do. If that will change your or someone else’s live you have my blessing and I am gonna support you all the time.
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First, work on your self-esteem. To do it you can simply read what I wrote above.
Secondly, think about your priority and your goals. What is more important that your co-workers or business partners might make fun of you or more important is to achieve something in your business or work?
Please notice that I used “might make fun of you” that’s because it’s not sure that they will. This way of thinking is created by the fear of rejection and fear of getting embarrassed.
If you are not sure that you are good enough to do some presentation or share your business ideas with others and you think that no one is on your side, you at least have one person that is on your side, ME!
Having ideas is a great thing, even if it will not work out the fact that you have ideas and you think about company growth is amazing and you should be proud of yourself as much as I am proud of you.
Try to trick your thinking, if you are not confident about your actions, don’t do it for yourself. Do it for someone else, your wife, kids, mother, friends. I will write about doing things for others and connecting it with doing things for yourself another day.
As I mentioned above, It’s hard to tell you how to build your confidence or self-esteem because I don’t know your past or current circumstances, but If you still have a problem with building your self-confidence feel free to send me an email at Kamil@KamilMigas.com and I will be more than happy to help you out.
Have an awesome day!