Worrying About The Future attracts terrible circumstances and the only way to stop worrying about the future is to know what you want.
I was worried about my future for a long time. Especially when my income was very low, I had a job which I didn’t like and I didn’t have really any special skills. There are people who finished Universities, courses and some other special schools but even they are worried about their future. I didn’t even finish high school and my first son was about to be born. Hard circumstances made me feel worthless and at that time I couldn’t stop worrying about the future.
It took me few years to realize that always worrying about the future doesn’t help at all with creating the bright future. It actually prevents the good and bright future to come.
The law of attraction exists and works even if you don’t believe in it. I could experience it many times and even if you didn’t notice I am sure you experienced the law of attraction many times in your life.
It’s easy to explain how the law of attraction works, but it’s not that easy to totally understand how it exactly works. I am sure that you experienced or you heard stories of someone thinking about a friend and then that friend showed up or called that person. Maybe you really wanted to get a job or get a high degree in school, you weren’t really prepared but you got it. This is how the law of attraction works. Basically, you attract things and situations which you think about.
The tricky thing when it comes to the law of attraction is that this law does not care if you think about a thing you want or about the thing you don’t want. When you think “I don’t want to be late” the law of attraction or the universe hears only “be late“. When you think “I don’t want to have a job that pays me less than $2K” the law of attraction hears only “less than $2000 monthly”. To use better the law of attraction instead of saying “I don’t want to have a job that pays me less than $2K” say “I want to earn above $2K“. Can you see the difference? In the better example, the law of attraction hears “earn above $2K“.
This is why worrying about the future does no help you. When you are worrying you are focusing on the negative. When you are focusing on the negative you are attracting more negative things and situations into your life and into your future. You can learn more about this law in the book “The Secret“.
Being worried about your future or even current circumstances it simply means that you do not have any plan. Instead of worrying about the future try to think about the future. Imagine what good and bad things could happen. Before you start to freak out about all the bad things that could happen, try to find a solution.
For many people, it’s not easy to get out from a difficult situation. Maybe you are that kind of person. What about making the difficult situation disappear before it even appears? When you think about some the best scenarios that could happen in the future and you think about the solution when you are still calm and not emotional you will be able to create a plan which will not allow that bad situation to happen.
Don’t worry about the future. Start thinking about the future but not only about what could go wrong. Important is to start thinking about all the amazing things that could happen to you. Remember that law of the attraction works all the time.
Try to create a vision of the bright future. I know it’s not easy especially when you have not good current circumstances, but it’s possible. There was a lot of things going on in my that many people won’t even believe, I don’t want to share all of them right now in this post, but I little by little I will be sharing about all my life in the future posts. Anyway, I didn’t have easy circumstances, but I wanted a change. I wanted a change so much that I created a strong and bright vision wich I am focusing on every single day. Some friends and family members were laughing when I told them what I want to achieve etc. but I didn’t care at all. It’s my vision and no one can take it away from me.
When you create the strong vision you are changing from negative worrying to positive thinking and due to the law of attraction, little by little you are starting to make that vision or dream come true.
Another thing is to create a realistic plan which will help you overcome some obstacles before those obstacles even appear. Of course, there are things I can’t control but at least I try to come up with few a solution to a problem which may appear in the future. I suggest you do the same. It will make you less worried when you will have a plan.
There are a couple of books that might help you with personal development and planning your future.
If you are focusing a lot on the negative things I hope you will stop right away. This has a huge impact on your life and the people around you. This is not any kind of positive thinking voodoo but think. Does negative thinking or worrying bring anything good into your life?
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